This is your life. You have exactly 1.000000000 of them. No one has any more, or any less (let me know if you find anyone who has lived 0.9 or 1.1 lives).
So, you can either think consciously about what you’re doing right now, and do exactly what YOU want… OR you can be guilted into doing what others, or people you know, expect you to do. What is supposed to be the normal thing to do.
Whatever you do, think to yourself: ‘Is this what I want to be doing right now?’
If yes, you are living your life. Not anyone else’s. Since you only get 1.0 to live, it’s making the most of it.