Your future is decided by you. It isn’t set.
Every day, there are hundreds, or thousands of decisions you make in your own mind of how to deal with things and what they mean to you. But nothing is decided. You may not decide the things that happen out of your control, but you do decide how you see them.
But there are also a lot of things that are in our control. See which ones you can and which you can’t. If you understand yourself, and what’s important, to you and in general, you can’t make a wrong decision.
Not only is the past no indicator of the future, but if you focus on the things you can change, the things that are in your control, you write your own story. You write your own fate.