You’re not one thing or one person but a collection of so much and so many

This is Xavier from the movie, The Spanish Apartment (or its original French title, L’Auberge espagnole):

collection

But Xavier isn’t just Xavier. Just like you aren’t just you:

Everything you do, have done, or will do is a collection of the data and influence and guidance of people upon people, things upon things.

It’s why when someone says ‘That’s just who I am’ it doesn’t mean that it’s set in stone. Because what matters is the people you surround yourself with and the person you want to be. That’s who you are. All of that.